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Who & Why

Hi! We might be a good fit if you are looking for a 1:1 therapist and any of these questions feel familiar: Am I exploring my queer and/or trans identity in relationship to my family, my community, society and/or the history/ancestry of queer and/or trans people? Am I curious about what’s going on in my body, because I am often stuck in my head? How do I process the impact of the trauma or pain carried by those who have hurt me, or those that I have loved? What are boundaries, really? Is my curiosity piqued by any of the following perspectives: decolonization, feminist-intersectional, parts work, narrative and/or somatics? ------------------------ Or- If you are looking for a relationship therapist: What is "working" within our current relationship(s)? What parts of me are drawn to or activated by the various parts within you? What would healthy and holistic boundaries look like for us? What patterns are my partner(s) and I stuck in? What realities do we dream for our relationship(s)? ________________ As a queer person (and a therapist), I believe my client's when they tell me about their histories and their hopes for the future. I believe life & oppressive systems sometimes create experiences, biases, and coping skills that don’t always reinforce that we matter. I know that inviting someone else into your life or your relationships can feel risky. I don't see myself as an expert, a judge, or a product manager. I'm here to support you and your partner(s) as you create a meaningful life worth living. __________ My identities: White, queer, femme, cis woman. PNW born and raised. In a visibly queer partnership. Pet parent. Lover of cold river water on warm days. ________ Schedule: Tuesday-Friday Session Location: I offer telehealth and in person sessions for Oregon residents. I am under Clinical Supervision of Rainer Quinn Catkin Rivenburgh, MAAT, ATR-BC, ATCS, LAT, LPC, SEP and Dr. Kimberly Coppersmith. ________ Fees & Sliding Scale Considerations: I have a limited number of sliding scale spots reserved. If my sliding scale spots are full, I am happy to refer you to other clinicians who may be able to offer a reduced rate. I am passionate about getting folks connected with accessible and affordable mental health services. Clients who are able to pay my full rate make it possible for me to offer sliding scale options for community members who cannot afford my full rate. __________
Kori DeSimone, MS
Registered Professional Counselor Associate

Services

Focus, Approach & Fees.

  • Couples Counseling
  • LGBTQIA+
  • Open Relationships/Polyamory
  • Kink/Diverse Sexualities
  • Grief
  • Trauma
  • Abuse Survivors
  • Cultural and Systemic Oppression
  • Gender Identity

Approaches

  • Person-Centered
  • Feminist Therapy
  • Relational Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
  • Somatic

Insurance Accepted

  • Aetna
  • PacificSource Health Plans
  • Moda

Fees

  • Couples & Relationship Sessions: $160
  • Individual Sessions: $140
  • Potential New Client Consultation: $0

Location

Perched in SE PDX

A street map for office location at Portland, OR 97214-3375

Office

Portland, OR 97214-3375

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